Last month, The New York Times apparently decided that the best way to celebrate Father’s Day was to publish an illustrated piece titled, “To My Daughter, My Gender Was Never Complicated.” It was an astonishing rejection of fatherhood itself.
Very well said. I healed from satanic ritual abuse I’d sustained as a child. The last area to address was physical. The first was spiritual, the second was my mind. I was then prepared to deal with my emotions more deeply. And then I zeroed in on maximizing my physical health. The entire process was a faith walk because I believed I should have life and that more abundant. I followed Jesus out of this darkness. He knew me better than I knew myself.
I appreciate that you have focused the light on the innocent child of an emotionally sick parent and affirmed their needs and the truth of the damage that can be caused.
Wise analysis - too bad your article wasn’t on the front page of the New York Times. That’s where it belonged.
It is incredibly painful to watch your children be subjected to this abuse and be unable to do a damn thing about it. Canada is so far gone, anything other than aggressive affirmation is considered "Parental Alienation" and is "undermining to the parental authority". I am watching my eldest son be slowly iced out by his father because he refuses to accept that some estrogen and new clothes has turned a 40 year old man into a woman. I see my daughter struggling to set boundaries when her father wants to accompany her on a "girls trip" to the bathroom. She is easily bribed by trips to Sephora. I notice my youngest son, suddenly emulating his father's idea of "girlish behaviours"...the way he sticks out a hip for pictures, or copycats the gender ideologist catchphrases ever present at his father's house - despite the deep confusion behind the motivation. They've all pointed out their father initially started this process "to be happier" and are confused as to why the rage issues and irritability continue to linger, if their father is indeed supposed to be happier. "These drugs make me emotional" And "The world doesn't accept me" are the proffered excuses for the behavioral malfunctions.
How do you even explain any of this to a child? How do you offer empathy for their father while staying rooted in the truth? My son once asked me "Do I even exist if Dad is a woman? Two women can't make a baby, they need a man. So am I real?"
But they love their father. They want to continue to see their father. I will never be an obstacle to their relationship with their father.
So as their mother (unknowingly catfished by a weirdo), all I can do is hold space for their feelings and offer them a sanctuary in my home from the emotional chaos in their father's.
The level of hubris in the Lifestyle of Transgenderism is unique. I don't believe this level has been "achieved" at any point in human history, or maybe it did when we invented fire.
Cynically I'll say people hate truth and facts because they are obsessed with liberation. The more you know the less liberation you have.
It's ALL about adult desires, often fetishes, sacrificing children in the process in so many ways - asking them to support adults' emotional needs, sacrificing their confidence in their intuition and understanding, sacrificing their safety and opportunities, sacrificing their bodies to prove that "trans kids are real" so that adult men with perverse fetishes can claim to be "born that way" instead of accountable for their weird and often perverse and pornography behavior. You can see the ways in which children take the brunt of paying for adult desires in so many aspects of our society. But I think this is the worst.
The mind is a fertile ground for whatever seeks to grow roots, by you or whomever you allow. At a young age children are target rich for learning and being taught what the world needs. This fresh start can be easily manipulated and tortured by cults, by people with demented views, and alas abuse. This mind control is exactly what is happening by these people who decided for themselves that they would build a world within and the have it externally validated as they were “god”. Seeking to have their warped fantasies confirmed and celebrated.
What’s the difference when you are 7 and made to wash the dishes every night, vacuum the house, wash the bathroom, clean your room and mow the yard.🤣🤣🤣
Truth and common sense. And I can’t imagine the NYT ever publishing a rebuttal like this.
WEAK A--- LUNATICS RUN THE NEWS PUBLICATIONS FOR THE BILLIONAIRES WHO WANT LIFELONG MEDICAL PATIENTS
THIS IS THE VICE OF GREED AND ARROGANCE
Signed, a Black woman from Texas
Very well said. I healed from satanic ritual abuse I’d sustained as a child. The last area to address was physical. The first was spiritual, the second was my mind. I was then prepared to deal with my emotions more deeply. And then I zeroed in on maximizing my physical health. The entire process was a faith walk because I believed I should have life and that more abundant. I followed Jesus out of this darkness. He knew me better than I knew myself.
I appreciate that you have focused the light on the innocent child of an emotionally sick parent and affirmed their needs and the truth of the damage that can be caused.
Wise analysis - too bad your article wasn’t on the front page of the New York Times. That’s where it belonged.
I hate how some of the atheists have gone deeply darkly insane
It is incredibly painful to watch your children be subjected to this abuse and be unable to do a damn thing about it. Canada is so far gone, anything other than aggressive affirmation is considered "Parental Alienation" and is "undermining to the parental authority". I am watching my eldest son be slowly iced out by his father because he refuses to accept that some estrogen and new clothes has turned a 40 year old man into a woman. I see my daughter struggling to set boundaries when her father wants to accompany her on a "girls trip" to the bathroom. She is easily bribed by trips to Sephora. I notice my youngest son, suddenly emulating his father's idea of "girlish behaviours"...the way he sticks out a hip for pictures, or copycats the gender ideologist catchphrases ever present at his father's house - despite the deep confusion behind the motivation. They've all pointed out their father initially started this process "to be happier" and are confused as to why the rage issues and irritability continue to linger, if their father is indeed supposed to be happier. "These drugs make me emotional" And "The world doesn't accept me" are the proffered excuses for the behavioral malfunctions.
How do you even explain any of this to a child? How do you offer empathy for their father while staying rooted in the truth? My son once asked me "Do I even exist if Dad is a woman? Two women can't make a baby, they need a man. So am I real?"
But they love their father. They want to continue to see their father. I will never be an obstacle to their relationship with their father.
So as their mother (unknowingly catfished by a weirdo), all I can do is hold space for their feelings and offer them a sanctuary in my home from the emotional chaos in their father's.
Enmeshed parenting. It took me years to get beyond it. Children should never be their parents emotional support systems.
Title win
THANK YOU.
The level of hubris in the Lifestyle of Transgenderism is unique. I don't believe this level has been "achieved" at any point in human history, or maybe it did when we invented fire.
Cynically I'll say people hate truth and facts because they are obsessed with liberation. The more you know the less liberation you have.
That child deserves a mother and a father.
It's ALL about adult desires, often fetishes, sacrificing children in the process in so many ways - asking them to support adults' emotional needs, sacrificing their confidence in their intuition and understanding, sacrificing their safety and opportunities, sacrificing their bodies to prove that "trans kids are real" so that adult men with perverse fetishes can claim to be "born that way" instead of accountable for their weird and often perverse and pornography behavior. You can see the ways in which children take the brunt of paying for adult desires in so many aspects of our society. But I think this is the worst.
The mind is a fertile ground for whatever seeks to grow roots, by you or whomever you allow. At a young age children are target rich for learning and being taught what the world needs. This fresh start can be easily manipulated and tortured by cults, by people with demented views, and alas abuse. This mind control is exactly what is happening by these people who decided for themselves that they would build a world within and the have it externally validated as they were “god”. Seeking to have their warped fantasies confirmed and celebrated.
Your child is your slave.
At least this is how I remember childhood
How sad.
That is not how it should be. Children should contribute to the household like everyone but not like slaves!
What’s the difference when you are 7 and made to wash the dishes every night, vacuum the house, wash the bathroom, clean your room and mow the yard.🤣🤣🤣